In March 2000 I became a proud father of boy and girl twins. Shortly after I came home from work finding my house empty and my children gone. Money, pictures and all belongings gone, as if they did not exist. Eventually I found the mother and my children had moved from Vancouver to Vancouver Island. I obtained a court order and travelled to and from the Island living in my car to see the children for 8 hours per day on Saturday and Sunday. When I could not afford to keep my vehicle no longer I hitchhiked up and down the island. The mother constantly ignored court orders and faithfully declined my time with my children whenever she saw fit. I eventually moved to the island in 2003 to be closer to my children. We have had 2 section 15 reports and both say that I am a loving and caring father and one had recommended equal time. My applications to the court include defending ex parte applications to regain access, allowing me to be a parent helper at the children’s school, allowing me to enrol the children into swimming lessons and soccer, among other beneficial activities that most of us took for granted when we were children. The mother has been on legal aid for nine years, and along with her lawyer has continuously lied to me and to the court. Throughout the course of these events I hooked up with other like-minded individuals who were going through similar circumstances. In May of 2005, along with other dedicated members of Fathers 4 Justice Canada across the country, I participated in an event that saw myself dressed up as Spiderman onto of the Pattullo Bridge in Surrey BC. This action was to raise awareness to plight that many great fathers face when actively attempting to remain a intricate part of their children’s lives after the break up of a relationship and the lack of commitment by our family courts in this country to support families in their time of need. “Children deserve the love of both parents in their life”.